Release the Shadow

We’ve often heard of shadow energy.  What is it?  How do we resolve and release it? Shadow energy is coming from the fright/flight part of our brain.  It sees raw threat where there may not be any, and is concerned … Continue reading

Stop Hurting Yourself

Self-sabotage in all of its myriad of forms is one of the more devastating human conditions.  When we get out of balance in our lives with too much or too little of something, we strive for equilibrium and will do … Continue reading

Time to Reinvigorate Relationships

After a good ski season, it’s time to focus on our relationships that may have taken a back seat to days on the mountain, or vertical feet logged.  Spring is reinvigorating everything so the example is all around us.  When … Continue reading

How to Create Healthy Boundaries

Most of us know what it feels like when we establish and hold a healthy boundary.  When we don’t loan money to friend/family that hasn’t repaid the $200 they ‘borrowed’ two years ago, when we don’t bail someone out of … Continue reading

Valentine’s Day and Your Relationship

If there was a word to eradicate from all relationships this Valentine’s Day, it would be contempt.  This creates irrevocable damage in a relationship and spells major disaster.  When we feel contempt for our partner, aggression and criticism are close … Continue reading