Sometimes it is a challenge just knowing where to start…and communication can get stalled in the quickest ways. Petting a dog is communication. If we reach for a dog and quickly pull back, we startle ourselves and the dog. Then we have to begin again by calming ourselves and the dog. It’s the same with people, we can always begin again and calm each other so we can speak and listen; hear and be heard.
A suggestion that has worked well is to ask the question. Instead of making a statement you must then defend, ask a question you can discuss. If we ask the how or why of a situation, it can create a merry-go-round that can quickly go nowhere. Ask the ‘what’ of a situation instead: What do we need to talk about? What is our end result? What is the best thing we can both do or say right now?
The word ‘how’ and ‘why’ have so many options, they can easily lead to distraction and a narrow view of the situation. The word “what” makes us look at a bigger picture. We take in more information, see more possibilities and share the options. Interestingly when we use the word what and ask a question, we bring more of our presence to the table. The more we are both present, the more we can accomplish. Plus, when in a discussion of possibilities, there is no limit to what can occur and nothing to defend or justify. Use a Rapid Eye session to discharge any emotional fuel that might cause us to defend or attack – then speak from your heart and watch the resolutions arrive at the table in droves.
Rapid Eye Technology can access the patterns that no longer work in our lives, release them and create a new pattern of connection and support. This is done without diagnosis, drugs, or machines – it is our body’s natural process of REM sleep and a gentle, safe modality that creates dramatic change in a short amount of time. This change happens quickly because you, the client, use your own tools rather than taking on someone else’s ideas and trying to fit your life into their box.
With Rapid Eye Technology accessing the whole mind/body system while awake, allows you to be in control of your journey and in a powerful position to create your new reality. Identify and release nonproductive beliefs, negative thought forms, and emotions—all of which contribute to emotional stress. RET is a release and reframe technology unique in its approach and amazing in its results.
Claudia Bianca, MRET is a Master Rapid Eye Therapist/RET Trainer sharing twenty years of private practice with Rapid Eye Technology. She is located in beautiful Taos, New Mexico offering private individual sessions, Immersion programs, Reiki Attunements and Rapid Eye Certifications and workshops. Please feel free to leave a comment below and thank you.