CIAO, Bella

Old BellaSaying goodbye to a beloved pet after 16 years is a journey that I have been blessed with.   The question of letting her die naturally or putting her down came up more than once for me.  I share this story with you in the hope it will tell some of our journey should you be at the same crossroads with your beloved pet and assist you in making an informed choice.   Whatever choice you make, will be perfect for you and your pet. Continue reading


We all experience the frustration rising up when our connection to the internet is slow, our television is fuzzy, or the cell phone drops a call.  When our connection to each other has interference, it feels just as frustrating.  How important is connection?  Without it we have little excitement about just being here and living day to day.  We lose valuable information that can shape our perceptions of each other, events or relationships as well as add joy or struggle to our daily lives.  

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On Valentine’s Day most are thinking of cards, flowers and chocolate.  Let’s go to a different place this year.   Why would we (humans) have love as one of our experiences in this life?   Just to make us feel good?  Just to make others feel good?  Yes to both of those and yet, there is more.  Love is the ultimate power – we all just want to love and be loved.  It can change just about anything including the colors and brightness that we perceive on any given day.  Continue reading

New Year – New Tools

Rapid Eye Technology (RET) is a safe, natural way to release stress and trauma leaving us empowered to live a happier, more productive life.  Using blinking, breathing, and eye movement techniques RET gently mimics a condition of sleep (rem) that is our body’s natural discharge mechanism.

Accessing the whole mind/body system while in an awake state allows you to be in control of your own journey without reliving incidents.  RET uses the natural blinking reflex to open up neuropathways where memories of our experiences are trapped.  For instance, being trapped in the birth canal, trapped in a car accident, or trapped in a relationship are all on the same neuropathway.   Rapid Eye provides an opportunity to blink it out and move to a new perspective of life events.

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